Our homes shape our daily lives more than we realize. The spaces we live in influence our emotions, energy, and overall well-being. A well-designed home is more than just beautiful—it’s a space that nurtures, supports, and heals.
I recently had the pleasure of speaking with Mahwish Syed, an award-winning designer, best-selling author, and cancer survivor, on my podcast. Her journey through illness transformed the way she views design, and she now focuses on creating spaces that promote healing and wellness.
Listen to the full podcast episode here.
Her insights were eye-opening, and I knew I had to share them with you.
The Healing Power of Design: Mahwish’s Insights for Transforming Your Home
Creating a home that promotes well-being isn’t just about aesthetics. For Mahwish, it’s about making intentional choices that support mental, emotional, and physical health.
The Concept of Healing Design
Our environment plays a direct role in our mental, emotional, and physical health. And, Mahwish’s perspective was shaped by a deeply personal experience.
After being diagnosed with breast cancer, she re-evaluated everything in her life, including the space she lived in. She started researching epigenetics, which is the study of how our environment influences our genes, and realized that so much of our health is within our control. She began auditing her home for toxins and stressors and made changes that would support her healing.
Today, she helps others do the same, encouraging them to be mindful about what they bring into their spaces. You don’t need a professional designer to create a healing home—you just need intentionality.
The Pomegranate Seeds of Wisdom, the Persephone Analogy, and the Science of Neuroaesthetics
Mahwish draws inspiration from the myth of Persephone, the Greek goddess who moves between darkness and light, symbolizing transformation and renewal. She compares this to the way we interact with our spaces: we can choose to live in “purgatory” (neglecting our environment) or actively design a space that supports our well-being.
She also introduced me to neuroaesthetics, the science of how beauty affects the brain. The colors, shapes, and materials in our environment directly impact our nervous system, which in turn affects our stress levels and emotional state.
A healing home is one that nurtures and soothes, rather than overwhelms.
The Role of Light and Circadian Rhythms
Mahwish emphasized how exposure to natural light helps regulate our circadian rhythms, affecting our sleep, energy levels, and hormone production.
Her tips are simple:
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Start your morning with sunlight. Step outside or look at the brightest point in the sky to set your body’s internal clock.
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Reduce LED and screen exposure at night. Blue light can disrupt sleep patterns, so dim the lights and swap screen time for candlelight or warm lighting.
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Use firelight or candles in the evening. This mimics the natural transition from day to night, signaling to your body that it’s time to wind down.
Environmental Toxins and Their Impact on Health
Mahwish stressed the importance of being aware of hidden toxins in our homes. Many everyday items, such as furniture, fabrics, and even cookware, contain harmful chemicals that can affect our health over time.
She recommends:
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Switching to natural materials like wool, linen, and untreated wood.
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Filtering the air with purifying plants or air filters.
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Avoiding synthetic fragrances, which often contain chemicals that disrupt hormones.
The Stigma Around Illness and Work
One of the most powerful moments in our conversation was when Mahwish shared how she hid her cancer diagnosis from clients because she feared it would make her seem weak.
This isn’t just an issue in design—it happens in other careers, whether you are a real estate agent or a mortgage broker. We live in a culture that prioritizes productivity over health, making it hard for people to take time to heal.
I’ve seen this in my own industry, where real estate agents fear losing business if they take time off for health reasons.
The Problem with Modern Building Materials
Another issue Mahwish brought up was the declining quality of modern construction. Many newer homes are made with synthetic, non-breathable materials that trap moisture, leading to mold and poor air quality.
She calls these buildings “living sarcophagi”—airtight spaces that don’t allow fresh air to circulate, creating environments that can actually make people sick.
Claiming Your Space and Ownership Mindset
One of Mahwish’s biggest messages is that everyone deserves to live in a beautiful, healing space, whether they own it or not.
She encourages people to take care of their living spaces even if they’re renting because your environment affects your self-worth and well-being.
As a real estate professional, I completely agree. I’ve seen too many renters neglect their homes because they don’t own them, missing out on the mental and emotional benefits of a well-kept space.
Spiritual and Scientific Intersections in Design
Mahwish beautifully blends ancient wisdom with modern science, showing how concepts, like quantum biology and biofields, explain why certain spaces make us feel calm and others make us feel uneasy.
She believes that our thoughts, emotions, and energy influence our well-being just as much as our physical surroundings do. The goal is to create harmony between our inner world and the space around us.
Final Tips for Designing a Healing Home
Mahwish offers simple, practical tips for creating a more supportive home environment:
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Use silk scarves instead of expensive pillowcases for a luxurious and skin-friendly touch.
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Open windows daily to bring in fresh air and reduce indoor toxins.
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Light candles in the evening to promote relaxation and better sleep.
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Shop your own home. Rearranging furniture or repurposing items can make a big difference.
For me, I would also recommend following real estate podcasts, where you can pick up useful insights for enhancing your space.
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Mahwish’s insights were a powerful reminder that a home is more than just a place—it’s a reflection of our well-being. Small, intentional changes can have a huge impact on our daily lives.
If you enjoyed these ideas, tune into the REalizations Podcast for more conversations with top industry experts, like Mahwish.
And, if you’re thinking about buying or selling a home in the Bay Area, reach out to me. I’d love to help you find a home that supports your lifestyle and well-being!